In Times Like These
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Dear friends,
As we make our way through this holiday season, on the heels of a very difficult year, I find myself thinking about the power of small, simple acts like lighting a candle for lost loved ones, or observing rituals that keep us grounded and present in our lives as they are. I offer the poem below in the spirit of this grounding, and as a way of saying a big thanks to each of you. The act of opening this email and receiving what I share every week feels like a gesture of love that I will never forget, or take for granted.
In Times Like These
Even lighting a candle seems
an act of radical faith,
the blackened wick reaching
like a root for the flame
that will both nourish
and diminish it. Yet we keep
the old rituals alive, let
this flickering speak, knowing
nothing can quiet the voices
of those we’ve lost, those
taken by violence and hate.
A single gesture of love is
such a delicate, durable thing—
snowflake dissolving as soon
as it meets the skin,
though the body will always
remember its shape.
—James Crews
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Your words are delicate and durable, never forget how they shape our days and living. Thank you always.
Thank you. I lit my candle first thing this morning remembering my son i lost 4 years ago today. Thank you for your comforting words.....