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Deborah Gregory's avatar

James, your poem beautifully captures the essence of embracing tenderness and softness in our lives, even in these times of struggle. Thank you. I loved how your words and Brad's photo (another poet married to a photographer here!) complement each other, creating a sense of hope and renewal together. That light at the end of the tunnel inspires us as we all emerge into newness. This feels so relevant right now. Thank you.

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James Crews's avatar

Thank you for the kind comments, Deborah--I'll let Brad know, too! Funny how poetry married to deep photography works so well!

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Leslie Waugh's avatar

Hope you are on the mend, James. I've also been hibernating with an injury for several weeks, trying to let go of doing. Thanks for the encouraging and soothing words, as always.

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James Crews's avatar

Hard to let go of the doing for sure. Hope you recover soon, too.

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Rachel Schiller's avatar

Love the ending that they all enter alike.

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Callahan Gobble's avatar

I needed to hear that

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Natalie Robichaud's avatar

Thanks, James, for your words. I hope you feel better soon.

As I navigate a serious injury, I have had to succumb to my body setting the pace which has been slow.

The irony is when I fell and fractured my ankle, I was moving too quickly.

Being gentle, and soft with myself as I navigate the grief of losing my mobility temporarily and my favourite season, has been necessary.

As physiotherapy ramps up, and my mobility changes, I catch myself pushing myself, and dealing with pain. This poem is a good reminder to keep letting softness lead the way.

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James Crews's avatar

wishing you a swift recovery as well.

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Lou Dunham's avatar

Equanimity. thanks for the reminder!

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Karly Randolph Pitman's avatar

Thank you James. I care for a chronic illness and I, too, have been traveling through the journey of surrender. I'm grateful for your voice that reminds us to be tender with ourselves.

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Jon Kaplan's avatar

James - I really appreciate your words. I loved the poetry conversation with Maya last night. A breath of fresh air when the air seemed choked with smoke. Can I post something here that I wrote? It's a short reflection, but longer than a poem. New to Substack and still figuring it out.

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James Crews's avatar

I'd be glad to read something--you should be able to post!

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Marisol Muñoz-Kiehne's avatar

‘Try softer,’ says James,

for ‘try harder’ seldom serves.

Make tender grace spread.

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Karen Hoffman's avatar

On the 15th, I suffered a stroke and have been healing. This poem came in shortly after and it was just so uplifting. Honestly don't know how it happens, but the balm and the calm always arrive when needed. Trying MUCH softer these days!

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